HYM Dating Policy & Safety Tips


HYM Dating Policy


Welcome to HaveYouMet (HYM) – where dating is simplified, personalized, and taken to the next level. Below is our Dating Policy to help you better understand how to use our app and ensure a smooth dating experience for all users.


Step 1: Set Your Dating Preferences
Our app features a powerful AI matching system that personalizes your dating experience based on your preferences.When setting your dating preferences, feel free to be as detailed as possible. We've provided some directions for your reference, and of course, you can talk to our AI about any ideas you have:
  • Personality traits
  • Hobbies and interests
  • Physical appearance
  • Cultural background
  • Relationship goals
The more specific you are, the more accurate and personalized your matches will be. Important: Your dating preferences are private and confidential. They are only visible to you and will not be shared on your profile.

Step 2: Complete Your Profile
Your profile is the first impression other users will have of you. Make sure to:
  • Upload authentic photos that reflect your true self
  • Provide a genuine description about who you are
  • Set your availability schedule so the app knows when you're free to meet
Once your profile is complete and your preferences are set, you’re ready to start your dating journey on HYM!

Step 3: Get Matches
Each day, you’ll receive 7 curated profiles based on your preferences and availability. Here’s how the process works:
  1. Browse Profiles: Click on each profile card to view more details.
  2. Send a Date Invitation: If you’re interested in someone, click the Like button. 
    1. You’ll choose the date time and location area (Cafe or Bar) based on mutual availability.
    2. This Like automatically sends a date invitation.
  3. Confirm the Date: Once the other person accepts your invitation, the date is automatically scheduled. 
    1. The app will suggest a cafe or bar based on your preferences and the selected area.
    2. The date time will be based on the invitation details.
All you need to do is show up at the designated time and place. Then, enjoy your date!

 

Reschedule Rules


Plans can change, and we understand that. You have the option to reschedule your date, but please follow these rules:
  1. Rescheduling is not allowed within 30 minutes of the date start time.
  2. If you initiate a reschedule, it will automatically cancel the current date and send a new invitation.
  3. The other person must confirm the new invitation at least 30 minutes before the new date time. 
    1. If the new invitation is not accepted, the date will be automatically canceled, and you will no longer see that person’s profile.
Please remember: Respect the other person’s time. Last minute reschedules or cancellations may impact your account status.

 

Cancellation Policy

If you can’t make it to a date, you can cancel at any time. However, please note the following:
  1. Canceling a date means you will no longer see that person’s profile.
  2. Canceling close to the date start time may result in account restrictions or penalties. 
    • Please respect the time of others and avoid last-minute cancellations.


Check-in Process


Upon arriving at the date location, make sure to:
  1. Click the “I've Arrived” button. This confirms that you’ve shown up for your date.
  2. The Check-in is essential for us to track attendance and ensure both parties have arrived.
Important: 30 minutes into the date, you will receive a notification prompt asking about your experience. Remember to check your phone!Remember, clicking “I've Arrived” is mandatory to confirm your attendance and avoid penalties.Upon arriving at the date location, make sure to:
  1. Click the “I've Arrived” button. This confirms that you’ve shown up for your date.
  2. The Check-in is essential for us to track attendance and ensure both parties have arrived.
Important: 30 minutes into the date, you will receive a notification prompt asking about your experience. Remember to check your phone!Remember, clicking “I've Arrived” is mandatory to confirm your attendance and avoid penalties.


No-Show Policy


We take no-shows seriously to maintain a respectful community.

If You Don’t Show Up:
If you fail to cancel or reschedule a date and simply don’t show up, you will face:
  • Account restrictions
  • Temporary or permanent suspension from the app
Respecting your date’s time is essential for maintaining a positive community experience.

If Your Date Doesn’t Show Up:
If your date doesn’t show up, you can report a no-show through the app after the scheduled date time.
  1. Click the Report No-Show button.
  2. We will review the report and apply penalties to the no-show user.
We apologize if this happens, but rest assured, this is not a common occurrence. We encourage you to keep using the app to explore more matches and have better experiences in the future.


Final Reminder


At HYM, we believe in real, meaningful connections. Our app is designed to minimize small talk and encourage users to meet in person. Following our Dating Policy ensures that everyone has a respectful, safe, and enjoyable experience.Happy dating! 😊





HYM Safety Tips


At Have You Met (HYM), we prioritize your safety and well-being. While forming meaningful connections is at the heart of our app, it’s essential to take steps to protect yourself, both online and during in-person meetings. Follow these tips to help create a safe, comfortable, and enjoyable dating experience.

Online Safety


Never Send Money or Share Financial Information
-Avoid Scams: Never send money or share banking details with anyone you meet online, no matter how convincing the reason. If anyone asks you for financial assistance, report it to us immediately.

Protect Your Personal Information
- Privacy First: Keep sensitive information like your home address, workplace, or daily routines private. Avoid sharing specific details on your profile.

Report Suspicious Behavior
- Enforce Community Standards: If someone exhibits inappropriate behavior, requests money, harasses you, or makes threats, report them using our app’s reporting feature or contact our support team immediately.

Secure Your Account
- Passwords and Logins: Use strong, unique passwords for your account. Be cautious when accessing HYM on public or shared computers. Never share your login information or verification codes with others.


Meeting in Person

Inform Friends or Family
- Share Your Plans: Let a friend or family member know where you're going and who you're meeting. Keep your phone charged and nearby in case you need it.

Control Your Transportation
- Independent Travel: Arrange your own transportation to and from the date, whether by car, taxi, or rideshare. This ensures that you can leave at any time if you feel uncomfortable.

Know Your Limits
- Mindful Consumption: Be conscious of your alcohol or substance intake during the date to keep a clear head. Don’t feel pressured to consume more than you’re comfortable with.

Stay Vigilant with Drinks and Belongings
- Stay Alert: Keep an eye on your personal items and drinks at all times. Only accept drinks that are served directly from the bar or your server to avoid any tampering.

Trust Your Instincts
- Leave If You Feel Uncomfortable: If something feels off, it’s okay to end the date early. Your safety always comes first.


Resources and Emergency Assistance

If you ever feel unsafe or encounter a threatening situation, don’t hesitate to use the Contact 911 button on the date page for immediate help. For less urgent concerns or to report inappropriate behavior, reach out to our support team via the app.

If you need advice or help, here are additional resources available to support you:
Remember: While following these tips can reduce risks, no system is foolproof. Always trust your instincts and prioritize your safety in every situation. If you experience anything concerning, please report it to us immediately.
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